Lessons Learned As A Foster Mom

What being a foster mom has taught and still is teaching me...

1. A quiet home, is a boring home.
2. It's ok if the house gets dirty.
3. All clothes match--in some way or the other.
4. Let your heart be your eyes (see each child as beautiful).
5. A gentle reprimand goes further than a loud scolding.
6. Hugs are habit forming.
7. A smile across the room speaks a thousand words.
8. Allowing little ones to "help" is rewarding for everyone.
9. All children are good, some are just misunderstood.
10. Meal times are supposed to include laughing.
11. Let your heart be your ears (accept the loudness of playing, laughing or crying).
12. You don't have to do all the laundry in one day.
13. Accidents happen, and it really is ok.
14. "I love you" are the only magic words.
15. Red and yellow, black and white, they are all precious in your sight.
16. "Disability" means extra love.
17. Let your heart be your mouth (say kind words).
18. Noggin (preschool cable network) is a God send.
19. Children think you're beautiful even without make-up.
20. Not to be selfish.
21. No child was/is an accident.
22. Rocking a child or rubbing his back works better than any sedative.
23. Changing a dirty diaper, in a room with a vent, makes ALL the difference.
24. Let your heart be your hands (give hugs and pats).
25. Paper plates are fine china.
26. Smiling, nodding, pointing and gesturing cross any language barrier.
27. Let your heart be your nose (see number 23).
28. Jesus welcomed the children, so should we.
29. Letting go is a growing opportunity.
30. To be flexible (mentally and physically).
31. God really is in control and has purpose to His will.
32. Not to sweat the small stuff.
33. To be thankful for my parents.
34. It's ok if the car gets dirty.
35. That my husband is incredible!

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